Tuesday, March 31, 2015

The Family Is of God





Our Father has a family. It’s me!
It’s you, all others too: we are His children.
He sent each one of us to earth, through birth,
To live and learn here in fam’lies.

God gave us families to help us become what He wants us to be—
This is how He shares His love, for the fam’ly is of God.
A father’s place is to preside, provide,
To love and teach the gospel to his children.
A father leads in fam’ly prayer to share
Their love for Father in Heaven.

God gave us families to help us become what He wants us to be—
This is how He shares His love, for the fam’ly is of God.

A mother’s purpose is to care, prepare,
To nurture and to strengthen all her children.
She teaches children to obey, to pray,
To love and serve in the fam’ly.

God gave us families to help us become what He wants us to be—
This is how He shares His love, for the fam’ly is of God.
I’ll love and serve my family and be
A good example to each fam’ly member.
And when I am a mom or dad, so glad,
I’ll help my fam’ly remember:
God gave us families to help us become what He wants us to be—
This is how He shares His love, for the fam’ly is of God.
© 2008 Matthew Neeley. Arr. © 2014 by Intellectual Reserve, Inc. All rights reserved.

Thursday, March 5, 2015

Waste Not Want Not - Part II

I knew that I needed a "diaper change" when I realized I wouldn't be able to afford to store enough diapers to last a year. I don't have the room in my limited storage space, and I don't have the room in my monthly budget.

So, I decided to switch to cloth, but as my stash of disposable diapers gets smaller and smaller there is a feeling growing larger and larger in my stomach. I have the jitters, but why am I nervous about using cloth diapers? Oh, I am not getting cold feet, but I am a little terrified of making the switch. I don't intend to back out of my decision. When I purchased them I knew there would be a learning curve as we all adjusted to the new way of doing things around here. Now with my supply of disposables nearly gone, I will have to make the switch to cloth diapers by the end of next week ready or not.

I know a lot of people out there use cloth diapers, that this is nothing new. In fact, disposable diapers have only been an option for a few decades. Cloth diapers have been the way to pamper baby's bottom for so long they make dinosaurs look young. Besides, in the last decade cloth diapers have evolved right along with our cell phones. They are so much easier and less messy than before. I don't have to worry about folding the cloth wrong or putting the diaper pin through baby's skin like our parents and grandparents had to. Now cloth diapers are cool and colorful and less bulky with adjustable Velcro fasteners. Besides, there are dozens of options. So what am I afraid of?

Out with the Old! In with the New!


I am afraid because this is not just a temporary experiment to see if cloth diapers are going to work for my lifestyle. This is an entire lifestyle change. You see, it isn't just cloth diapers. I am replacing all the disposable items in our home with reusable resources. I am replacing everything from paper towels to tampons with a reusable alternative. I am changing the way we live our lives and the products we spend our money on.

I bought cloth diapers, and I will be using cloth wipes as well. I am restricting my family to paper napkins only for birthdays and large gatherings. For our day to day needs we are now using cloth napkins. No more paper plates and plastic forks and spoons. No more paper towels. Now we will be using hand towels and dish cloths. I am stocking up on handkerchiefs and leaving no stone un-turned as we switch to reusable resources. I even used my first menstrual cup this week, and surprisingly I am already adjusting with ease to the changes.

Money Pits or Investments?


We are no longer pouring money into the pit of non-consumable groceries, instead we are investing our money into reusable resources that will save us money and stress in the long run.

When the prices for tampons go up, it won't effect my monthly budget at all because I am already making the switch to the menstrual cup and sea sponge tampons and cloth liners and pads. When the price of disposable diapers goes up my stress level won't spike because I already have all the diapers I will need for the rest of forever no matter how many kids I have. Inflation won't get under my skin as much as it used to before, because I am Murphy-proofing my life.

I am making the switch now to reusable items where possible so when the time comes that disposable commodities are no longer affordable (or no longer even available), I will already be accustomed to this lifestyle. I will already be comfortable and my stress level will not need to soar along with the price of non-consumable products because I will have already gone through those adjustments during times of low economic stress. What about you? Do you need a "diaper change"?

Picture taken from http://gadbaby.com/blog/



Wednesday, March 4, 2015

Waste Not Want Not


Trust What You See


If you've been paying attention you will have seen the warning signs and you will know that our economy is built on air. You don't have to be an economist to understand that it is just a matter of time before things go south. Who cares what the "experts" say when our own eyes are telling us time is running out. Lets use that time to our advantage and get prepared.

As the economy shrinks and food prices go up so will the price of our essential commodities and then, when they exceed the money in our monthly budgets we will no longer consider them essential. We will have to start going without. If we are not preparing ourselves and our families now, there will come a day when we have to go without basic items such as toothpaste and deodorant and soaps.

You may not believe it can get that bad from where you are sitting now with toothpaste in your cupboard (it has always been there), shampoo in the shower and hand soap on the counter by the sink (these are the things we take for granted), but soon we will have to choose between food and deodorant because we won't have enough money for both. That is when we will find out what the truly essential things are - just what will sustain life.

It really can get that bad even in the United States. We have sown a whole lot of "irresponsible" and now it is nearly time to reap the consequences. We can't put them off forever. Eventually what goes around really does come around. It's called the law of the harvest, and it is an eternal law. We can break ourselves against it, but we cannot break the law. In other words we WILL reap what we have sown.

What To Do About It


Because I trust what my eyes see I believe things are going to unravel, so I am making the switch to reusable resources where possible and where it is not possible I am stocking up on things like toothpaste and shampoo so that I will have at least a year supply for my family of five. I am gaining a measure of independence from this flaky economy by learning to make as much as I can from scratch. Including things from hamburger buns to laundry soap I am learning to produce more. When warmer weather finally reaches us I will be planting a garden as well. If I sow frugality and thrift and waste not then when the time comes I will reap the reward and my family will want not.

It might seem like I am going to a lot of trouble and inconveniencing myself needlessly. After all the economy hasn't taken that inevitable nose dive yet. But I don't want to wait until it happens before I get my house in order. It will be too late then. I want to Murphy-proof my life while the getting is good. I want to adjust my way of life while the state of our nation is still low key and low stress. I can't imagine having to experience cloth diapers for the first time or cloth menstrual pads for the first time after the crap hits the fan. Things are going to be stressful enough without having to make all these changes. Besides, if I practice this lifestyle now I will have worked all the kinks and bugs out by the time it really matters. I will have perfected a system to repel Murphy with, and I will more easily navigate the changes that are coming in our nation.

Why You Should Use Reusable Resources, Too!


Reusable resources are Murphy repellent. When the cost of diapers goes up it won't cause you to flinch because you will already be saving money by using cloth diapers. When the cost of paper towels or paper plates and napkins rises and draws an involuntary collective sigh from the American consumers, it won't bother you one bit because you will have reusable resources in your home already. When the price for tampons goes up, it won't effect your monthly budget if you switch now to the menstrual cup and sea sponge tampons and cloth liners and pads.

Reusable things are much easier to store. They take up less room in my limited storage spaces. They won't ever run out because, well, they are reusable so I can store less of them. A four month supply of paper towels used to take up a ton of room in my garage, but the few dozen hand and dish towels that I store now only fill up one kitchen drawer.

Not only will reusable items save you money as the economy eventually falls in a downward spiral, they will save you money now. In saving money now you are freeing up money with which you can pay down your debts. Getting out of debt is necessary if we are going to Murphy-proof our lives and keep personal disaster or crisis living at a minimum.

If you want to go green then that is just another reason to switch to reusable resources. Then you will be doing your part to save a tree or to keep land fills from filling up.

An Inconvenient Life


I like convenience, but it comes at a price, a price I have always paid until now. Now I value the cost more than I value the convenience, so I am changing my life. This is about getting my house in order, and maybe along the way, inspiring some of you to get yours in order too. I think it is important to prepare our households so that we have more money to spend on the true essentials when costs are high.

You can rationalize and tell yourself that things aren't bad - in fact considering the financial low that resulted in the housing crash of 2008 things are actually getting better. But why wait until things are bad? It will be too late then. Now is the time to prepare. Look at the warning signs and be smart. Think of how it will feel when your children look to you for their needs, but you are not able to meet them?

It wasn't too many years ago that the lifestyle in this great country of ours was not so disposable and on demand. There didn't used to be a disposable version of everything. People used to live by the old axiom to "use it up, wear it out, make it do, or do without." That time will come again when we can no longer afford to spend our limited funds on disposable and non-renewable commodities. If we are not prepared we will have to do without.